KINK & BDSM

Learn about Mistress Wild Iris, the SF Bay Area’s premier holistic dominatrix. Wild Iris merges her healing arts background with her gleefully sadistic tendencies to take her submissives though a journey of catharsis and liberation via pain, pleasure, and fetish exploration. Learn about her interests and see how the two of you may open you in ways you have only yet yearned for.

SO YOU ARE READY TO EXPAND YOUR MIND

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SADO-MASOCHISM

I am fascinated with transformation, by nature & revel in evoking cathartic experiences for others. As a Vipassana meditator, I find intense sensation a fascinating place where the lines of pain and pleasure blur and breakthrough can occur spontaneously.

In S&M sessions, I begin slowly with new clients and, depending on your excitement and willingness to venture in deep, issue a great deal of sensational experience to leave you tingling, reoriented, and flushed in bliss.

As Kahlil Gibran explores in The Prophet, “Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy; and you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields. And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.”

Some of my favorite ways to play with S & M include:

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT & PHYSICAL IMPACT PLAY

Intensity play, or pain play, allows the submissive to enter a trance-like state in which clarity can emerge spontaneously.

TORTURE WITH NATURAL WORLD IMPLEMENTS

Some may cook with Stinging Nettles, Ginger, and Cayenne, but I prefer to play with them. I have a garden filled with plants that will drive you into the deepest of natural ecstasies.

ELEMENTAL PLAY

As ice traces your skin and cements the shivers that began the moment we locked eyes, your resolve melts faster than our beloved glaciers. Or shall I instead pour molten beeswax over your flesh and brand you mine? My choice.

NIPPLE TEASE & TORTURE

How sensitive are your nipples? Oh I do love to pinch and pull, bite and nibble, pierce, clamp, caress and slap those dainty little things…

FLOGGING, CANING & OTK SPANKING

Relax in a crescendo of bliss as all tension melts under the slap of my hand.

CBT & BALL BUSTING

If only men could be liberated from their C & B. Never fear - I am here to help.

ELECTRIC PLAY WITH THE EROS TEK & VIOLET WAND

Our bodies are electrical beings, and evoking pulsating pleasure with electrodes alone is stunning to say the least.

PLAY PIERCING

I’m a needle freak and have piercing needles 25-14G (and barbells of 14 & 16G) - are you ready to go through the tunnel of intensity and emerge having released what no longer serves?

CLAMP & CLOTHESPIN PLAY

One, two, three, fourteen, fifty. Clothespins and clamps are applied with ease … and delightfully flicked off with a swift twitch of my wrist. How these pins so sensitize your precious flesh. Where do you go as the pain begins to take hold? Together, we keep you focused as you expand to hold a magnitude of sensation you never before thought possible.

MEDICAL ROLE PLAY FANTASY

A medical herbalist by training, I delight in the myriad of ways to direct the functioning of your body with my devices. Try me.

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SENSUAL DOMINATION

I am truly a sensual hedonist who loves to play and experience the depths of true alivedness. Reveling in the lusciousness of the body is a birthright and I am here to enjoy pleasure to its greatest extent!

I enjoy games which explore the body, mind, and spirit in bizarre and impactful ways that evoke our deepest core characters.

Know that if there are fantasies or fetishes you wish to play with which are not listed below, please check with me to see if I would like to explore them with you. My mind is both open and perverted and chances are high I might want to try it with you.


TEASE AND DENIAL

You are easy for me to read; I love sensing precisely what you want & dangling it right in front of you! Seeing you become hopelessly aroused for me - sigh!

BONDAGE

My ropes snake around your body, binding you like a fly in my web. You do so love to be caught, now, don’t you.

SMOTHERING & BREATH PLAY

When’s the last time you had your breath taken away?

 
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STRICT & PLAYFUL FANTASY

Directing the games and ultimately winning is oh-so delightful for me.

FANTASY ROLE PLAY

I absolutely love the psychological exploration of the most secret fantasies. I find that role play is one of the most cathartic ways to explore scenarios we have otherwise deemed taboo - that in giving the space to play out and evolve, we ultimately liberate ourselves from their stranglehold on us. What's the scenario you're dying to enact?

WRESTLING

This can span the spectrum of playful fantasy to hard core competitive. I am formally trained in wrestling and hold a black belt in Martial Arts and can likely whip your ass in the ring.

SERVE ME

Acts of service are a premier form of receiving love for me, and I adore a submissive who wants to serve my needs as he grows in his devotion.

FANTASY CUCKOLDING

Can you imagine a life in which you are adequate to be my true lover? Too bad for you, I am already completely satisfied and you will have to do with enjoying serving my lover.

SPH & VERBAL ABUSE

Humiliate your cock? What cock? Show me what you’re made of.

 
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HARD LIMITS

These are firm. Any violation of my limits will result in immediate termination of the session without refund of tribute.

Limits include: No kissing, No sex, No touching of my body until instructed

With my boundaries respected, I am a very well-pleased dominatrix. It is essential that we be on the same page, we will have a negotiation pre-scene during which boundaries for us both are reiterated and safe word are established.

While this thankfully has not happened, I reserve the right to terminate the session without refund if my boundaries are violated in any way.

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