NOTICE: IMPENDING HIATUS
After a decade in this glorious world of depth and debauchery, I’ve decided to take an extended hiatus beginning January 1, 2025. If you would like to see me before this long break, get in touch and we will arrange time to meet.
Warmly, Iris
HELLO, YOU
Here we go down the rabbit hole.
You’ve been wanting to be dominated by a powerful woman for some time, haven’t you?
And now you’re ready to take the plunge and give yourself what you’ve long desired - to explore BDSM and your wildest fantasies of submission. You’re curious how far you could really go.
I am ready for you and your yearning to surrender to the strong dominant woman of your dreams. Whether I will choose to curate an immaculate D/s space in which you can melt your mind and unwind into your wildest fantasies…
Or if I will direct you to receive the titillating edge-dancing kinky full body sensual massage that will reset your entire nervous system…
I find my joy as the Bay Area’s premier Dominatrix in cultivating a space in which you can unwind, transcend time, and come back home to yourself.
From our initial easeful interactions to the moment you step into my immaculate countryside dungeon, our time together will be a respite for you. I take great pleasure in intimate relationship and aim to cultivate a graceful foundation from which we can explore the wildest of realms.
My professional exploration of sex and power began in 2015 as means to guide people through cathartic experiences. My curiosity (read: obsession) with psychology & death and rebirth, and fascination with all things dripping in sex had me realize that BDSM and life as a Domina was my calling. Here, I would meet people where vulnerability is default and the desire to meet ones edge -and perhaps expand beyond it- is a driving force.
Following lifestyle experiences that had my mind twist and cavort with confounded pleasure, and the realization that I could learn to offer this regularly, I set out to hone the toolkit that I wield today.
My emphasis in my exploration of BDSM is in the realms of Intensity play, edging and catharsis, and softening into submission. As your mistress, my intention is to provide the safe space for you to melt, attune to center, and re-form with flint. My tools and practice will take you to a place that you have before only yet dreamed of, and one once visited, will provide solace for you in the future… or until the next time you pay a visit to your dominatrix next door.
So I ask you - what do you yearn to explore with me? What do you want to feel in our time together? This exploration process will uncover aspects of yourself that you may have previously only seen in dreams or moments in between waking and sleep, as we step into this world of archetypes that is so classic to BDSM.
The lanky whips, strong leather, and shiny latex that flank my grand, lithe body remind you the same that the piercing look in my eyes does: I’ve got you. One step in my dungeon and you will know you’ve found your second home.
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