Mistress Wild Iris

KINK & BDSM

Learn about Mistress Wild Iris, the SF Bay Area’s premier holistic dominatrix. Wild Iris merges her healing arts background with her gleefully sadistic tendencies to take her submissives though a journey of catharsis and liberation via pain, pleasure, and fetish exploration. Learn about her interests and see how the two of you may open you in ways you have only yet yearned for.

IT’S TIME FOR A RESET

But not the kind where you need to try really hard to make something happen.

No, the kind of reset I’m talking about is where you simply soften. Deeply. Deeper. And allow the juicy goodness of your virile body to start to come on stage again.

I’ll take the reins - and you? You just melt, surrender, and dive in. Take my hand and I will lead you on the luscious, erotic, sensual, inner journey of your fantasies - deep into your body, your soul, and through the wildfires of what you’ve been avoiding. Because you know what? Therein lies your liberation.

Come on with me - we both know you’re ready for it, aren’t you?

How do you like to play?

There is many a-way to go deep within.

Through Sensory Deprivation-

  • Bondage and Leather Straps to hold you tight and give you the support you need to really melt

  • Suspension

  • Blindfolds and Hoods

  • Binding you with my body

-Intense Sensation-

  • Edging till you tremble

  • Prostate Milking

  • Enema, Catheter, Sounding

  • CBT till your teeth chatter

  • Nipple Play till you explode

  • Impact Play (spanking, whips, flogger, cane, crop, paddle)

  • Needles and Sharp things play (knives, pinwheel)

  • Electricity (Violet Wand & Tens Unit)

  • Natural World Implements (Cayenne, Ginger (Figging), Nettles)

  • Trigger Point Massage to top it all & release the deepest blockages

-and a bit of Verbal Guidance, we traverse the fertile landscapes of your inner world. See below for more details on the process.

BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE, SADO-MASOCHISM

I am fascinated with transformation & revel in evoking cathartic experiences for others. As a Vipassana meditator, I find intense sensation a fascinating place where the lines of pain and pleasure blur and breakthrough can occur spontaneously.

In these sessions, I begin slowly with clients and, depending on your excitement and willingness to venture in deep, issue a great deal of sensational experience to leave you tingling, reoriented, and flushed in bliss.

“Give your pain and your tension your loving, concerted attention, and you will find precisely the answers you need for liberation.”

Our time together will begin slowly to help your body and mind open to trusting me and the experience. From there, with you ever-more melted, I will work with BDSM tools, bodywork, and a gentle-verbal process to guide you to further let down any guards and open into the experience. Our exploration will become increasingly potent -read: intense- as we go, as I listen to your body and guide you to soften further while simultaneously experiencing both more physical intensity via pain and more pleasure.

I will only go as far and as fast as your body wants.

My style of exploration is tantric by nature as I work with you to build ecstatic sensation in your body via breath work, ASMR, and intuitive touch. In my hands, you will find yourself held securely, whether with ropes or leather binders, holding you either in to yourself or splayed open. My warm, strong, open demeanor will facilitate your opening, and I assure you that you will quite enjoy laying down your defenses at the door. My hands are strong and my perception of your body's energy is equally tuned-in. Together we breathe rhythmically and work with BDSM and intentional body work as my hands go deep into your muscles to release stored tension. Upon release of locked energy, we work with breath to relax the nervous system to help circulate this ecstatic energy within your body. 

“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy; and you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields. And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.”
— Kahlil Gibran in The Prophet

Some of my favorite ways to play with S & M include: corporal punishment and physical impact play on highly sensitive areas such as on the nipples, balls and cock, and every other inch of your beautiful body; pain and pulsating sensation with natural world implements, including stinging nettles, ginger, cayenne, or more classic BDSM implements like floggers, whips, crops, slappers, clothespins, clamps, and canes; elemental play such as with ice, wax, and electricity (I have both the Violet Wand and ErosTek); and play piercing.

Know that if there are fantasies or fetishes you wish to play with which are not listed above, please check with me to see if I would like to explore them with you.

Dominatrix Mistress Wild Iris on waterfall in the bay area

HARD LIMITS

These are firm. Any violation of my limits will result in immediate termination of the session without refund of tribute.

Limits include: Kissing, showers, body worship, feminization, cross-dressing, sex

While this thankfully has not happened, I reserve the right to terminate the session without refund if my boundaries are violated in any way.